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Friday, November 16, 2007

MARRIAGE PROBLEMS


In today's world, marriages are under attack. Whether it is challenges within the relationship, a cheating partner, or the stress of the outside world, keeping a marriage alive can become a challenge.


I was in a 15 year marriage and, unfortunately, it fell apart. While there was no infidelity, the love we had vanished. Looking back on it, there were signs early that could have prevented this from happening. We should have been more open to one another, more available to discuss the challenges we were having, etc. Alas, it was not so, and we drifted apart and became roommates, rather than the soul mates we should have been.


It is not necessary for this to happen. Even if you are the sole person in the marriage that wants to make it work, you can do so. There are techniques that when used will allow the "problems" to be worked out and can save your marriage.


I have spent time looking at such techniques because I am marrying again soon. She is the love of my life, a true soul mate, and I do not want the same pattern to reoccur this time around. Further, I want others to benefit from the discoveries I have made.


It's not impossible to change the things that are wrong. A little attention to details, being open to looking at the signs of impending marital doom can save a marriage, bring it back to the days of early love and friendship. Are there issues of unresolved conflict, child issues, money problems, lack of intimacy, constant fighting? Want to know how to fix this?I can not help you, only you can help you. However, I can help you to overcome some of the challenges you are finding in your relationship. If you desire, deep down, to save your marriage, I urge you to stay tuned, as I will bring you methods that work, secrets to rekindling the love you once had.

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