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Friday, November 16, 2007

WHAT EVERY WOMAN MUST KNOW ABOUT SOLVING RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS


Solving relationship problems eventually is part of every marriage and stronger those love bonds between partners are longer such relationships will be pleasant for both. Bible says "Wise woman will build her home but foolish one will destroy it with her own hands." Marriage is an institution on which is based whole structure of family. If your marriage is strong then your life will be more peaceful, you will be much better wife and you life will be filled with joy.


You have to be ready to spend your time, think and make an effort when solving relationship problems in the name of marriage. Tips that I list below will help to keep determination high and will bring some new life into your marriage. Something wonderful might happen - you could fall in your love with your partner all over again.


1. Look at good things and ignore badYou married this man because of many reasons - he has some great qualities. Your first task is to learn to find positive things in your relationship and ignore negative ones. This might be the hardest part because when you both meet each other and dated for some time you only saw good qualities in him but when you got married and are now living together your human nature tends to make you forget about those good qualities and see only bad things


2. Make a habit to ignore small irritating thingsDirty socks on floor, dirty dishes, his worn clothes and many other small irritating things are now part of your life. Just try to ignore them and instead look how he plays with kids, helps you at home and simply makes your smile. If you manage this then solving relationship problems will be much easier for you.


3. Every day say two compliments to himNow that you committed to ignore bad things and see only positive things it's time to tell him about those. This is key ingredient in your happiness and to his heart. In modern days there is so much negativity which forces us to not say compliments to each other. When we hear compliments it doesn't just make us satisfied with ourselves but also be happy about someone who told this compliment.


Compliments are not hard to say and they don't cost anything but they have big impact. It just requires small effort to say those. Just simple "Dinner was great honey", "Thank you for helping me clean the room" or "Your sweater looks perfect".

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