If the thought of months of wedding planning and spending thousands of dollars for a single day event makes you cringe, you are not alone. Many couples think about eloping, but few couples actually go through with it. Eloping brings to mind a sense of spontaneity and old-fashioned romance. Running off to City Hall or Las Vegas and coming home Mr. and Mrs. May sound like a great idea; but before you commit to a thrill-filled, spur of the moment elopement, you should consider some pros and cons of your potential life altering decision.
Pros:
· You will save a ton of money - typically a weekend away (an elopement and honeymoon combined) will cost thousands of dollars less than a traditional wedding.· No hassle of wedding planning· You will avoid family arguments - especially if your parents are divorced or if one of your families disapproves of your mate.· It will be a fun, exciting experience - one that you both will remember for the rest of your lives.
Cons:
· You won't be able to celebrate with close family and friends (unless you take them with you)· Mother's of the bride may be upset that their daughter did not tell them or invite them to the wedding.· If your parents disapprove of your partner, this may cause even more family problems.
If you are still considering eloping, here are some ideas to bring the festivities home with you.
· Have a small reception when you return with just close friends and family
· Hire a photographer to take pictures of you around the ceremony location
· Invite your parents and/or close friends with you on your trip.
· Elope now and plan a lush celebration for your 5 year or 10 year anniversary - when you can afford it.
If you decide to elope make sure you check the marriage requirements for your destination. Many places no longer issue immediate marriage licenses, which is why Las Vegas has become such a popular wedding destination - quick marriages are easy there.
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